Philosophy of love in general life

"What is love? Why fall in love? Who fall in love? When fall in love? Fulminating, fiery, loving, fellow, passer-by, eternal, without response, mutual, can get lost in the monotony or be reborn through the ashes like the Phoenix. Attempt to conquer, to seduce, to become better, to help others to become better... Some say that it is always in love, others that fall in love constantly. Others argue that there is only one great love in their lives, others that have fallen in love a few times. Behind the words "love", "passion", "sexual attraction", "tenderness", "companionship" there are various interpretations and each of us gives their own. Freud argues that love comes slowly, through the satisfaction of sexual need. Still others believe that love "blooms" quickly. That is why in English the expression "fall in love" or in French "tomber amoureux". Sometimes, really fall in love before meeting another or live a love without response.



Love invades our lives, without asking us. And it is something beyond the sexual desire. It is a unique experience, wonderful, distinct. One experience that lures us, that transforms the way we see the world, that "captures" the heart and mind. Plato considered love one divine madness a delirium inspired by God. When we are in love, we are ready to conquer the world. In "Symposium", Diatoms explains to Socrates that love is the desire for eternity. Love is a process of maturing, why fall in love when we're ready to diversify, when we are ready to change our life, to leave the past behind and look to the future. What, however, fall in love? The psychoanalytic viewpoint argues that fall in love someone who reminds us of loved ones of childhood.



The man falls in love with a copy (physical or psychological) of the parent model and wife of the family or of a person who played an important role in our childhood. This option may not be the average event of need and our desire to move forward. In fact, what is worth is the symbolic importance of the moment you fall in love. Enough to feel that there is a deep connection between us and the object of love. If there is, we discover along the way. It is, however, possible to everyone a person who doesn't have time to meet a person who ignore if satisfies our wishes and needs. A person who chose to create the "we", even though "you" will not match up to our expectations ... After all, love is a condition that is subject to constant challenges, which may be renewed constantly, be weakened, to evolve, to erase or strengthens!