Love invades our lives, without asking us. And it is something beyond the sexual desire. It is a unique experience, wonderful, distinct. One experience that lures us, that transforms the way we see the world, that "captures" the heart and mind. Plato considered love one divine madness a delirium inspired by God. When we are in love, we are ready to conquer the world. In "Symposium", Diatoms explains to Socrates that love is the desire for eternity. Love is a process of maturing, why fall in love when we're ready to diversify, when we are ready to change our life, to leave the past behind and look to the future. What, however, fall in love? The psychoanalytic viewpoint argues that fall in love someone who reminds us of loved ones of childhood.
The man falls in love with a copy (physical or psychological) of the parent model and wife of the family or of a person who played an important role in our childhood. This option may not be the average event of need and our desire to move forward. In fact, what is worth is the symbolic importance of the moment you fall in love. Enough to feel that there is a deep connection between us and the object of love. If there is, we discover along the way. It is, however, possible to everyone a person who doesn't have time to meet a person who ignore if satisfies our wishes and needs. A person who chose to create the "we", even though "you" will not match up to our expectations ... After all, love is a condition that is subject to constant challenges, which may be renewed constantly, be weakened, to evolve, to erase or strengthens!
